Friday, February 19, 2010

This Sea of Life


"Normal" is boring *sigh*


Sometimes I just want to shake things up!

But sometimes I just want to blend in...
to be liked...


Be liked? ...for who I am not? Really?

Why?

Do I hide behind various masks out of fear?

...not always.

Well, okay. Sometimes I do.

But sometimes
...I am simply too busy to think
about who I am or what I choose!
(stupid excuse!)

Autopilot, sleep-walker, robot... lost sentience!

Both Fear and Busy make lousy ship captains.
They furiously paddle and splash,
rudderless!
until I stop them.

How far have they taken me?
Am I Lost?

whispers cries of, "who am i? what is this life?"

A lost Soul in a Sea of unrecognizable Moments!


So I am thinking~
What a waste it is to hide or sleep through life!

It is just a way to
refuse to be
truly "present" in this unique moment.

LIVING life with naked authentically...
Now that takes guts!


Who's with me?!


Please~ I hope you will take a moment
to listen with me to this recitation of
Invictus (I am the Captain of my Soul!)
(click on this link and the video will load)
spoken by the poet himself,
William Ernest Henley.


Have a lovely, thoughtful weekend, everyone!

This blog is dedicated to my cousin, Jason.
You inspire me. Thanks for daring me to be me.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Just for laughs... The IPAD skit


I seem to have found a way to post video's again! Yay me! haha

This is very funny, so hit play if you want 87 seconds of giggle time!

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CRANKY! (humph!)

Notice the tshirt says "Cranky" which I wouldn't be if I hadn't somehow screwed up my settings in blogger!!
Somehow, I can no longer post video's, like I had been easily doing.
I don't know how this happened. I noticed it as I was editing my "Sexting" post. That video was posted successfully, but has been lost. A link is in it's place, but this does not give the visual effect I desire.
I think I better work on something else!

Read Bailey's book, The Weeping Time: Memory and the Largest Slave Auction in American History

The Silken Veil   
By Paula Koenigsmark

Weep but do not forget to
Quench the water from your eyes with the
Blazing fire of rage over the
Atrocities which beset the poor.


And why are there poor at all?
Who has set a price upon their poverty?
The valued treasury of slaves!


Upon whose ear rings the cries of the poor for deliverance?
He will lift them up to the cool, pure waters of heaven
Within a silken veil of tender mercy.
Good morning, everyone!

Just a quick note~
I have changed the post layout so you can easily scroll down and see previous postings. They were hidden unless you clicked on the title of the blog, listed in my righthand column.

I hope this will encourage those of you who have just joined to peruse the previous postings and leave comments. 
We could share some really interesting discussions together, don't you think?

Warmly,
Paula Rose

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Separated for the First Time...

My daughter is working at the Bimini Biological Feild Station.
It is our first long separation...
I miss her already!

Last summer, she went studied in Bimini for 8 days.
This time she will be gone for three months.
(sigh...)

Here she is with a Tiger shark.
My little girl riding De's horse.


Here she is as a chubby toddler!
She is being silly with me!


With her baby brother...


I love you, Arielle...
You are beautiful and unique.
Somehow fragile yet- ohhh so strong!
Sometimes confused yet- ohhh so smart!
Someone proud yet- ohhhhh so honest!
Somewhat silly yet- ohhh so diligent!
Someone far yet- ohhh so near!
I love you, Arielle...
Love, Momi

Let's take a break with "Grocery Store Musical" !!!

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The video won't post, so here is the youtube link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WnY59mDJ1gg
Please take a few minutes to enjoy this with me!

It makes me think of how wonderful diversity is, yet how often humankind resists it (uncomfortable, unfamiliar, unlikely)... When we stop segregating ourselves off (by religion, or race or whatever), and choose to widen out & open up instead, then our world is richer- much richer still!

You Sexty Thing, You!

Surely Sarabhai would be happy with this use of the Arts (i.e. CollegeHumor's dance song skit!) to deliver a cautionary message about a common virtual-flirt move called sexting.

Sorry, I was editing and lost my video link! Arghhh...
Please bear with me. You can find the video here, along with an article.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/11/28/lets-talk-about-sext-vide_n_371847.html
I will try to retrieve the video again later.
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Our sexuality is part of our humanity. This is a broad statement.
Let's include everything from the most conservative behavior to most liberal behavior- but let's not include deviante behaviors than transgresses human rights (like sex trafficking, rape, etc). Okay??

Before technology, we encountered one another exclusively in person. Examples range from conservative courtship rituals (for marriage) to orgies, right?

Eventually literacy led to private letter writing and public print (from love letters to erotic stories).

Then the telephone brought audio-calls. Ahhh, talking for hours with your beloved...or much more erotic conversations.

Online is the newest environment for humans to relate sexually with one another(including the imfamous mobile phone "sexting" phenomenon).

This media offers audio, picture and video venues for interacting with one another. The behaviors may happen live, but it almost certainly leaves a record (even if "deleted"). Additionally, it is usually quite easily forwarded, as the Collegehumor video points out!

HUMAN TRAFFICKING

Krishnan remembers her anger much stronger-
more vividly than her memory of the pain/raping.

Perhaps it was this anger which empowered her to become a woman whose lifework has become saving others
(over 3,200 so far).

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Now, as she rescues these people,
she asks herself:
"How can I get out the POWER from this PAIN?"




Trafficking is not limited to "certain countries" or the really big cities.
I live in the midwest (Minnesota) and yet we need/have a sex trafficking vice squad here. Minneapolis/St. Paul isn't that large, so I was surprised that we needed a specialized department to handle this- right here in my home city.


Now let's look at another innovative suggestion for approaching human right's dilemmas.


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Sarabhai stresses the value of the universal language (i.e. voice) of the Arts to the advocacy of Human Rights!!

Artistic devices, such as literary expressions, are in a unique position of giving a public voice to the very private realm where struggles with women’s human rights often occur.

I think that Sarabhai makes a good point about arts being a universal language. It touches and speaks in the language of the heart...and the heart is the seat of motivation.

What do you think about using the arts for political aims? Effective? Persuasive?

SUPPORT THE ARTS IN YOUR COMMUNITY

"MANSPACES"

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I have seen many instances of "manspaces".

Have you?

For example, let's talk about garage conversions into manspaces...
That's a place I have never seen converted into a "womanspace"!
But how many of you have seen garages that look like they are another room of the house? I have seen them heated, sheetrocked, decorated (commonly a hobby or sports theme), media-presence (television, radio, etc), et cetera...

Manspace! They are often quite impressive.

Women take their spaces, too. But too often it is the whoooole house.
If she is married, doesn't it seem a bit unfair when even the master bedroom is 100% feminine frills?

Hahaha! Come on! Tell the truth... You've seen what I am talking about, haven't you??

Feel free to comment: I'd just love a little feedback!! ;-)

Sunday, February 14, 2010

The Metaphysics of Media

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Interesting points, although I may not agree with everything Dr. Fallon says.

Change announces itself tumultuously. But humankind is so resiliant! Doesn't society "recalibrate" under the pressure of a major shift? Since rapid technological advances have thrust humanity into a new age, a paradigm shift is to be expected.

It sounds like propositional thought (see III.A.2.b.1) simply relates to the ability to process abstract concepts. So it is important! One example: Higher math is all about abstract concepts. But then, developing critical thinking skills (CTS) should help ppl strengthen their ability for propostional thinking, shouldn't it? CTS can be put into curriculum- it is a teachable skill.

We need to focus on making necessary adjustments to help keep humanity on a straight path amidst this new media environment inwhich we now spend so much time relating to one another. Researchers in various fields, such as my own (Communication), are busy studying this new environment and how it is affecting all of humanity.

I choose to believe we can learn how to live in our digital world.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Valentine's day of Love



Last week I brought two pieces of my childhood from my mother's home into mine.

First, this small golden chaise. Peice of me are woven and gently stuffed into it.
How many hours I spent in the arms of this chaise, and in the arms of my mother as she read!
How many times I stretched out and curled up my little body~ reading, playing, daydreaming or sleeping~ but never watching television.
Mom was firm on this point:
Television had no rightful place in the living room or the bedroom;
it was relegated to the family room downstairs.

Secondly, this marble coffee table.
Cool and lovely, it was always graced with one or two of my mother's favorite books. For little me, it obligingly transformed (with the help on a blanket) into my fort, or I would simply lie underneath it~ observing the different way my world looked from down under.

I remember a book lying on the cool marble called "The Prophet".
Please share an excerpt from this book with me,
in remembrance of Valentine's Day...

Of Love
(from The Prophet by Kahlil Gibron)

When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.


(The painting is by Kahlil Gibron: Kahlil Gibron and Mary Haskell)